Conversation with god-III

After few sleepless nights, yet another chance appeared for having a conversation with god…….and it naturally started with few investigative queries……this time on human behavior and psychology………….

I asked: I have seen people not appreciating others efforts by their sole and heart, saying congratulations became a formality for everybody. Why this is so?

God replied: As everybody gears up for clean India mission there is a great need to clean our own souls first as everybody these days is not sad because they are suffering something, but are sad because……others are happy……… and jealousy and hatred erupted as a part of everybody’s daily lives…….!!!!!

I asked: Still for few of them, others’ success works as an inspiration, but when it comes to peer group, this disease is spreading heavily and in the process, who was your friend once become your enemy?

God replied: The problem is, everybody fights for few coveted positions and no matter how much others can display helping hand for you; everybody is selfish somewhere and it breeds animosity which restricts them from congratulating others’ affectionately.

So where do the solution lie? I asked

There is no specific solution or a tablet which can cure this disease, it needs a whole lot of big heart, a resilient mind and a bearing attitude with a thought that………..

Whatever there is in bag for you, it will come catching to you……..the difference is what you deserve………..

My slumber broke as almighty left the conversation saying………….remember my son……..

Others’ failure is not your success………..!!!!!!!!!!!

Well, for most of us, congratulating or thanking others affectionately is becoming a rare art because in the hindsight we are unable to bear the brunt of our failure and others’ success…… and if you don’t agree to my thoughts…………. Do a reality check and internal assessment…….!!!!!!!!!!

The answer lies there………..

A worthy admiration.......!!!!!!!

“Your biggest admirations come from people around you……”

He is someone with whom I am not highly attached yet his positive and candid attitude magnets me towards him. He prepared hard for the campus, we did that collectively at times, yet luck evaded him in the first campus. He was left to survive to bear the brunt of University’s Internet connectivity and he was not able to make it to the next round………!!!!!!

Personally saddened, I went to him for boosting his morale and was amazed to see the positive intent with which he started preparing for the next one….!!!!!!

Later on, when three of us were selected, his bliss was highly admiring for me and in an hour he arranged a perfect holy bath for everybody of us…… In the process I saw his ability to have happiness for others………..!!!!!!!

Next campus, he was highly excited to make it count this time, grossly passionate to have some moment for himself to cheer and was equally prepared to face the brutalities a campus process can have. Unfortunately, he couldn’t make it to the interview and this time again I went to him and was flabbergasted to hear his reply:

“ Are chalta h yaar, mjhe bharosa h k ek din mera bh hoga kisi company me……”

Today, when its final results were announced, albeit he had no major stake in selected candidates, his happiness for them, excitement to congratulate them and positive spirit was worth emulating…………!!!!!!

 He is someone who is not my very close aid yet his intent make me his fan, he is not yet placed but is worth full of giving a consideration because those are the moments when you feel shattered, devastated, pessimistic and this guy always had a positive attitude towards others…….. For me whether he is placed or not, he is worth admiring in this regard……. Because when great teams lose, they also show sportsmanship spirit by shaking hands and congratulating the opponent………. And that makes them become great………!!!!!!!

“Well, you aren’t lost till the hope of winning isn’t lost…….”

We call him Pravin Kumrawat…….!!!!!!!!!

My New Inspiration........!!!!!!!!!!

“ Some people enter in your life as a mirror, just to let you realize the fact that whoever, wherever and whatever you are, you must be grateful to almighty’s blessings……..”

For an individual, who always seek inspiration from people around him, I came across this 7-year little boy who changed the way I saw my life………….. At some point of time, you tend to think miserably, feel dejected, as if all the sorrows have fallen upon you, luck has been unfair to you and everything in future will go unachieved…………… And in the process…….you stand lost and messed up……..!!!!!!

He is a small kid, thoroughly intelligent, mischievous, jovial, and energetic, enjoys his life on a broader canvas, leaving behind everything that happened with him at an early age…………. For him every festival is just enjoying in imagination, every moment is incomplete because of the tragedy he faced, for his sister celebrating Rakhi is just a short-lived dream and no consolation can pacify him…………… And still he is happy……..!!!!!!!

In an accident, he lost both of his hands and in an attempt to save his life, his mother lost her one hand, the incident took place just few months back………and whenever I see him……. I bless him rather than sympathize him…….. Because he is my new sought Inspiration…………..

Well, now I believed in the old saying……..

“Last time I wept for a branded watch was when I saw someone with no hands………..”

(P.S: Those who read this blog, I request you to sit silent for at least two minutes and pray for this little kid’s good future…….. Make a difference in someone’s life………)

Deloitte likes the Ankit way......!!!!

“Last night I wanted to sleep but it was evading me……..and today I am evading it but the tiredness is letting me break down…….”

And yet, when those words just hit the corners of my ears, neither I was feeling out of the blue not tears were dropping from my eyes, but it was just a satisfactory gesture that was evident in me…….that I got what I deserve…………….

And the feelings become over joyous when people start pouring wishes to you saying “You deserved it……..”

To sum up the whole experience, from my point of view, communication skills play a vital role in someone’s selection…….and if you don’t believe it……the best example is the writer of this blog…….

I screwed up the whole technical round, which I am not ashamed off because of the kind of pressure the situation had, it becomes confusing for everybody to answer some basic questions………and believe me…….

If life runs on basics………an interview also proceeds on basics……….but the presentation matters which is a result of good communication skills………

Nothing out of the blue in the interview……..very basic questions……but they expect the potential candidate to be passionate, energetic, vibrant, pleasant in personality, open to learning, patient and  enthusiastic so that he/she can match up with what they want…….

Keeping everything simple…….one simple advise which I give to everybody…….

“You will be selected on the basis of how you perform……and will be rejected also on the basis of how you perform…….”

Because……………they come to hire you………not to reject you…….!!!!!!!

Stay positive……cheers……!!!!!!!!!!!

Ankit…….a proud Deloittian………..

{P.S.- He loved her so much………..loved her from the bottom of his heart…….but was not able to get her……because he was not able to propose her………..so the problem was communication skills……….}

Conversations with God-II

It was yet another night as almighty appeared in my dream…… Being an enquiring guy…. I asked….

As soon as she came out of the interview room, she cunningly denied helping others by stating that she was not able to answer any question and she doesn’t remember what was asked…… but later on she was selected……so in totality she was selfish……..how to deal with those people considering that I voluntarily helped everybody there………?

Almighty replied………

No one is free of selfishness in this world where competition is paramount but she will not go a long way as according to the rule of tit-for-tat others will not help her when needed……….

-But then, what should I do as these people are not easily determinable in their motives?

You must still help everybody that come across to you as at any point of time in life you would be getting benefits out of their blessings………

-But then what about my selection, I will lose my place due to this cunningness of others?

Don’t worry about that, there is a place for everybody in this world………difference is which one you deserve……….!!!!!!!

And remember my son………

“Those who are not helped by others……..god helps them to make their way……”

And about those selfish and cunning people……….

“By exhibiting that kind of behavior, at any point of time in life, they lose the place they are destined to get or the one they deserve………..”

Well, helping others is priceless, but selfishness is costly………..!!!!!!!!!!!!

The Deloitte Way.....!!!!!!!!

(I am sharing the pre-hiring experience of Deloitte in which 14 students from our college including me are selected for the final interview which is scheduled later on………I will not get into nitty-gritty of the timings and everything…..to keep it short I will just narrate the process and how was the level as per my point of view…………)

The mornings were not usual today, because adrenaline was a bit on a faster side as the first company for the recruitment was coming. So, finally and inevitably, Deloitte today visited the campus for its pre-hiring process and everyone was very excited and proportionately nervous too because of the stringent process they had announced………so let’s see how it went out actually…….

The first test was BELIT test which was undecipherable by its name but originally it was listening and Reading Comprehension test which comprises of 16 questions each to be completed in 15 minutes apiece. It was primarily focused on listening abilities where a picture was given and after listening the options  we were asked to select the one which describes the picture best…….

A conversation was being played in which inference was needed to be drawn out……….the toughness level was average but the accent was different from what we use in common day language and hence a bit of problems can be faced who hadn’t listened to it before………concentrated listening will help a candidate with a bit of shrewdness in selecting an option and patience……..

The result of the successful candidates was declared in the shorter time…..cutoff was 456 out of 787 and those who were close to the score re-appeared for the test so that they can improvise the score and clear the initial stage………50 selections out of 93 students…………

In the next round, they took business proficiency test which was supposed to be the last test, but a googly was thrown by HR and we moved again to lab for the test………It was a 75 minutes test comprising 75 questions based on Accounts, Logical Reasoning and MS-Excel (30 questions for first two and 15 for last one)………..

Accounting was a bit tricky but was totally based on basics of accounting which plays a vital role in whole process…..Bank Reconciliation Statement was to be prepared out of the given figures, Working Capital determination, Royalties Payble A/C balance transferred to which account, Backflush Costing, Questions based on basic principles of accounting and costing………….so do mug-up basic accounting terminologies and principles…………….

Logical Reasoning was fairly on an easier side and MS-Excel was totally based on shortcuts and basic definitions………best part is no negative marking but caveat is sectional cut-off………..

Results were declared once again in a short-time (only 3 students were eliminated) and it started the last round called as VERSANT TEST………..It was based on communication skills and once again listening abilities was the prime focus…………

A sheet was given in which there were certain sentences that we had to read out according to the instructions given by the speaker on the other side……after that, next section was listening where we had to repeat the sentence that we listened……the sentences are in different accents and if you are not familiar you may face problems……..i didn’t faced so much……though I also did a bit……..

In next section, basic questions were asked which needs to be answered in one word……those were very common-sensual questions such as basement is above the floor or below the floor, To whom you would go if you are ill, doctor or salesmen etc……..questions were simple……but once again……….LISTENING MATTERS……..!!!!!!!!!!

Next section was jumbled sentences were being read out from the other side and we had to read it in a proper manner…..e.g They read “ Going to be, a, Pratik, is, manager…………..

The correct answer is: “Pratik is going to be a manager” So here listening combines with Grammer……..

Last but not the least is open questions………3 questions were asked on which we expressed our opinions within 20 seconds apiece……questions can be… What you prefer, mobile or letter? What are the characteristics of a good family according to you…….

Remember, in this section, content doesn’t matter…..what matters is how you speak, clearly, coherently and concisely…..that’s it……. 25 selections out of 47…….

And within half an hour, officially it was declared that few of us have cleared the first hurdle…….THE ACTUAL PREPARATIONS BEGIN NOW……………..!!!!!

Believe in yourself, stay positive and have patience……..rest whatever you can do to improve your technical and other relevant skills, it will prove beneficial in the long-run………

Because in long-run, stamina matters……!!!!!!!!!

A Lord from a Prince........!!!!!!!!!!!

I always think………..

“Why Lord Ram went to exile for 15 years although having abundant wealth and all the comforts of life…?”

Recently, I have met several people who reject an opportunity because they are not willing to step out of their comfort zones………….and an opportunity missed is an opportunity denied……..!!!!!!!

As an individual, we create our own cocoons and resides in that self-created world where if someone tries to tinker with the setup, we lose our own mental setup and converts that self-created world into self-created mess…………

and in the process…….success evades us……!!!!!!!!!!

We create relationships which flow with the so called conventions of the world……….choosing people who neither question our identity nor let us as see the real mirror……..and if someone have that gumption………he is being slowly discarded citing him as a cynic……..and in the process…….true relationships evades us……….!!!!!!!!

Well, in this era where everyone wants to have their existence in their own comfort-zones, living in a world where their abilities can’t be questioned, having people around them who keep them happy, but don’t give honest feedbacks,  is a slow poison which sooner or later proves dreadful…………..!!!!!!!

Well, I got my answer……….

“To become a Lord from a Prince, he stepped out of his comfort-zone and exhibited himself as a model of an ideal man…………”

Someone has rightly said……….

“ KHILTAA TO KAMAL BHI KEECHAD ME HAI……….THODA SA APNE AAP KO UTHA KE TO DEKHO……..”