Not a game of Pick and Choose......

While having a discussion with one of my friends about how having confined territory has damaged the prospects of having good relations with everyone, I said:

“ I want to end up with cordial relations with everyone, so that once I am out of the Institute, they can value me in the same manner as they do me now………”

As expected, the reply was:

“You can’t get everyone, you had to choose……..”

Well, to me friends are not products arranged in shelves of a departmental store where I can play the game of “pick and choose” with them. Friendship or any healthy relation is a river like flow where it augments day by day once you start following the flow…………. 

And while my concern never was to get everyone, my concern was not to lose anyone……………

And when you choose people for this eternal relationships where you feel comfortable with him/her, laugh your heart out unstoppably, play pranks and tricks, you might end up segmenting an individual according to class, color and many other petty variables……. You want him/her to be the way you see him/her and when it doesn’t happens, you are bound to regret…………

So never choose friends and let anyone choose you according to his/her comforts………..just be what you are and learn to follow the flow…………you will always get better ones than you could have chosen consciously……..!!!!!!!!!!

And remember, don’t disturb the flow, enjoy the journey……….