Conversation with god-III

After few sleepless nights, yet another chance appeared for having a conversation with god…….and it naturally started with few investigative queries……this time on human behavior and psychology………….

I asked: I have seen people not appreciating others efforts by their sole and heart, saying congratulations became a formality for everybody. Why this is so?

God replied: As everybody gears up for clean India mission there is a great need to clean our own souls first as everybody these days is not sad because they are suffering something, but are sad because……others are happy……… and jealousy and hatred erupted as a part of everybody’s daily lives…….!!!!!

I asked: Still for few of them, others’ success works as an inspiration, but when it comes to peer group, this disease is spreading heavily and in the process, who was your friend once become your enemy?

God replied: The problem is, everybody fights for few coveted positions and no matter how much others can display helping hand for you; everybody is selfish somewhere and it breeds animosity which restricts them from congratulating others’ affectionately.

So where do the solution lie? I asked

There is no specific solution or a tablet which can cure this disease, it needs a whole lot of big heart, a resilient mind and a bearing attitude with a thought that………..

Whatever there is in bag for you, it will come catching to you……..the difference is what you deserve………..

My slumber broke as almighty left the conversation saying………….remember my son……..

Others’ failure is not your success………..!!!!!!!!!!!

Well, for most of us, congratulating or thanking others affectionately is becoming a rare art because in the hindsight we are unable to bear the brunt of our failure and others’ success…… and if you don’t agree to my thoughts…………. Do a reality check and internal assessment…….!!!!!!!!!!

The answer lies there………..

A worthy admiration.......!!!!!!!

“Your biggest admirations come from people around you……”

He is someone with whom I am not highly attached yet his positive and candid attitude magnets me towards him. He prepared hard for the campus, we did that collectively at times, yet luck evaded him in the first campus. He was left to survive to bear the brunt of University’s Internet connectivity and he was not able to make it to the next round………!!!!!!

Personally saddened, I went to him for boosting his morale and was amazed to see the positive intent with which he started preparing for the next one….!!!!!!

Later on, when three of us were selected, his bliss was highly admiring for me and in an hour he arranged a perfect holy bath for everybody of us…… In the process I saw his ability to have happiness for others………..!!!!!!!

Next campus, he was highly excited to make it count this time, grossly passionate to have some moment for himself to cheer and was equally prepared to face the brutalities a campus process can have. Unfortunately, he couldn’t make it to the interview and this time again I went to him and was flabbergasted to hear his reply:

“ Are chalta h yaar, mjhe bharosa h k ek din mera bh hoga kisi company me……”

Today, when its final results were announced, albeit he had no major stake in selected candidates, his happiness for them, excitement to congratulate them and positive spirit was worth emulating…………!!!!!!

 He is someone who is not my very close aid yet his intent make me his fan, he is not yet placed but is worth full of giving a consideration because those are the moments when you feel shattered, devastated, pessimistic and this guy always had a positive attitude towards others…….. For me whether he is placed or not, he is worth admiring in this regard……. Because when great teams lose, they also show sportsmanship spirit by shaking hands and congratulating the opponent………. And that makes them become great………!!!!!!!

“Well, you aren’t lost till the hope of winning isn’t lost…….”

We call him Pravin Kumrawat…….!!!!!!!!!

My New Inspiration........!!!!!!!!!!

“ Some people enter in your life as a mirror, just to let you realize the fact that whoever, wherever and whatever you are, you must be grateful to almighty’s blessings……..”

For an individual, who always seek inspiration from people around him, I came across this 7-year little boy who changed the way I saw my life………….. At some point of time, you tend to think miserably, feel dejected, as if all the sorrows have fallen upon you, luck has been unfair to you and everything in future will go unachieved…………… And in the process…….you stand lost and messed up……..!!!!!!

He is a small kid, thoroughly intelligent, mischievous, jovial, and energetic, enjoys his life on a broader canvas, leaving behind everything that happened with him at an early age…………. For him every festival is just enjoying in imagination, every moment is incomplete because of the tragedy he faced, for his sister celebrating Rakhi is just a short-lived dream and no consolation can pacify him…………… And still he is happy……..!!!!!!!

In an accident, he lost both of his hands and in an attempt to save his life, his mother lost her one hand, the incident took place just few months back………and whenever I see him……. I bless him rather than sympathize him…….. Because he is my new sought Inspiration…………..

Well, now I believed in the old saying……..

“Last time I wept for a branded watch was when I saw someone with no hands………..”

(P.S: Those who read this blog, I request you to sit silent for at least two minutes and pray for this little kid’s good future…….. Make a difference in someone’s life………)