One of my close friends annoyingly told me the other day “I am
obsessed with the coddling behavior of my grandmother…….”
While his obsession was highly characterized by the
communication gap that commonly prevails in this type of relationships where
one is eager to discuss the sleazy movements of Shakira while other is
up with the finesse elegance Madhubala had in
their times………….
While being social is confined to Facebook and
Watsapp for the younger generation, the older ones still believe in talking………
while one is firm believer in old is gold, another is yet to
acquiesce the rule…….
Hence the bugaboo was quite
justifiable………..!!!!!!!!!!!
For me, the whole sojourn of life has been scattered
akin to accounting process where the adolescence is as simplified as
Journal where the scope of any mistake is narrow and as we grow further, we balance
all the assets and liabilities in the last phase of life……..
While she is in the phase where she wants to balance all her
assets and liabilities, he being one of her assets, desires to have
some insights
which can simplify his own life……..she can have all the comforting
apparatus, but she is there to spend some time with him, imparting her love and
affection
towards him……..!!!!!!!
And yet everyone has to cross all this phases of life to complete
it, rather than telling I love you and I respect you, one must
tell her I Understand you.......!!!!!!!!!!!
Because what you reap is what you sow……..!!!!!!!!!!!!
