Unconditional Calmness.....!!!!!!!!!!!

They say “Silence is the best weapon in conflicting situations………. But hard to use and practice especially when you are an angry young man…….”

Because you trust your chauvinism……..!!!!!!!!!!!

Few years’ back one of my very close acquaintances was indulged in a fracas with me which was a consequence of a trifle misunderstanding……….. His parlance of contempt towards me started and ended with all the profane adjectives that he could throw upon me…………….. I hope you understand my parlance this time……..!!!!!!!!!!!!

Looking back at that time from now, me was more of a short-tempered and frustrated fellow whose career was dwindling and was yet to reach the desired shore which was creating that restlessness in me and hence consequently all that was coming out in substituted forms……………

but much opposite to my anticipation, I remained calm and placid in the whole incident, as if a school teacher has asked me to stay silent, much surprisingly in a situation where it is hard to control yourself being a young fellow………!!!!!!!!!!

But here I was,  used that weapon of my armory and in the end he gave up…….but I found more of a matured man in me……….and that was the only silver-lining of the whole incident…..!!!!!!!!!!

[All the adjectives that he used are more of a substitutes to cover up one's own-frustration..........!!!!!!!!!!]